Andy Chaleff
We're thrilled to highlight Andy Chaleff, whose journey with the JET Program took them to Yamagata, Japan from 1993 - 1995. Andy fostered cross-cultural understanding and developed a deep appreciation for Japanese traditions. He tells us:
I was a JET in Yamagata Prefecture from 1993-1995, and one of my most memorable experiences was organizing a regional sumo taikai (tournament) specifically for fellow JET participants. What made it truly unforgettable was that we partnered with professional sumo wrestlers, who not only helped set it up in an official ring but also taught us the customs, rituals, and spirit of sumo with incredible generosity and humor.
It started as a fun idea to bring JETs together through cultural immersion, but it quickly grew into something more meaningful. The wrestlers performed ceremonial demonstrations, guided us through the proper etiquette—from shiko stomps to salt throwing—and brought an authenticity that made the whole event feel deeply connected to Japanese tradition.
The best part? The taikai became an annual tradition, continuing even after I left Japan. Knowing that something we built together out of curiosity and joy continued to bring people together year after year—that’s the heart of what JET was all about for me: connection, cultural exchange, and creating moments that last.
After completing my time on the JET Program, I transitioned into a career focused on business, education, and later, emotional development. I now work as an author and mentor, helping individuals and couples navigate the complexities of connection and communication—skills I first honed in the Japanese classroom. I write about Japan in all of my books.
My JET experience was foundational. Living in Japan taught me not only how to teach, but how to listen across cultures, adapt to new environments, and respect perspectives different from my own. These are lessons I carry into every part of my professional and personal life. The ability to hold space for discomfort, to navigate ambiguity with grace, and to build trust through small daily gestures—all of that started during my time in Japan.
To current JETs and newer alumni: don’t underestimate how powerful your time in Japan is, even if it doesn’t feel “career-relevant” in the traditional sense. The intercultural fluency, resilience, and emotional intelligence you’re developing are rare and deeply valuable. Be intentional about how you carry those lessons forward.
To the Japanese delegates: thank you for welcoming us into your communities and allowing us to grow alongside you. The spirit of omotenashi, the depth of connection, and the beauty of everyday life in Japan continue to shape who I am and how I show up in the world.
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